Don't wait on anyone. If someone you are with/looking to be with is telling you they aren't sure of they wanna be with you, they need time to decide, they love you but don't know what to do, wait on me while I decide, you pay attention to that fucking shit because it is a goddamn red flag for one. Two, it shows they probably might not be one ready for commitment, Three, you are not obligated to wait on no one to decide this. Sure you can wait for a few weeks or so and let them make the decision but you be very adamant about a yes or no coming from them. You slow the contact down, and you let them have the time to decide but state that you want a DEFINITE CONCRETE ANSWER. You don't need to have your feelings left in the fly on fantasyland as she plays the song of hope with your heartstrings until eventually one of the strings pop or you're out of tune and your realize you're in some fucking bullshit.